I think you’re reading too deep into it. Women in America that voted for Trump did so because they are either Republican, or really didn’t like Hillary Clinton. They didn’t like Clinton so much that they voted for the “grab em by the pussy” guy. I don’t buy your “they don’t know what their doing” argument, many women simply have no interest in changing what you call the Patriarchy because it doesn’t bother them. Not because they are brainwashed.