Okay Donna, but what if in that article, the dark secret that guy is talking about, is that he raped a girl? And what if when he opened up about it, other guys on the team came forward and said “yeah I raped a girl once two man… it happens.” Think about it, this guy is saying he is opening and being vulnerable, but we do not know about what. Are we exonerating a horrible act? Maybe this isn’t such a good thing. Again, we don’t know, but that’s part of what is frightening.