Ouch, come on Perry… While the transference in his comment is clear, let’s give him some props for placing her article in context. For one, she is in SF, perhaps the worst place one can be to find “love” (save NYC perhaps) and two, it’s not like she’s going to church or volunteer activities to meet these men. I don’t agree with Stevens that “average looking” guys will be the answer, because it’s not about that; “average” looking dudes can be just as loathsome as anyone else, and the nature of this comment definitely seems self serving. But yeah, let’s not paint a broad stroke on “American Men,” there are plenty of people out there behaving poorly and checking boxes, while there are also plenty others that maintain a sense of spirituality, decency and compassion.

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